Sorrow and Love.....Yeah,they have a relation.

The purpose of human birth is to live a life full of love for all. No joy is greater than that of loving others. wealth, acquiring property, fame, bedecking oneself give but transient pleasure, not any sense of fullness. The happiness that spread through our inner being is the happiness of loving others. When we love others we are not conscious of our suffering, the physical exertion we make and the money we spend: indeed the joy of loving gives us a transcendent feeling. A life in which there is no love for others is a life lived in vain.

I said that when we love a person we forget our sorrows. But one day, at last, it may be that the object of our love itself becomes the cause of great sorrow. One day the person we love leaves us forever-or one day we will leave her forever. "Oh Shehas left me forever"-"O I am leaving Her for ever": we lament in this manner. We feel disturbed when we realize that all the happiness that love gave us has at last proved to be a lie and ended in sorrow. "Is the final outcome of love then sorrow? "we ask ourselves in agitation. The greater our love for a person the more intense our grief when she is separated from us forever. We may then even wonder whether a life without love, a life of selfishness or a life of insensibility would be better. One leading such a life will not be affected by being separated from her affection.

[The problem then is]: Our love for others ends in sorrow. However, if there is no love there is no meaning in life. What is the solution to this problem? We must create such love as will never change, love that will be enduring. our love must never become separated from us, never desert us. If there were such a person and if we dedicate all our love to her,/him, we would never be separated from one another- there would be everlasting fullness.

To explain, we must love the One Who never changes. Who is that?(Very hard to get right?) .

The question arises: If one is to love (particular person) that never perishes, does it mean that we must not love anyone else, that we must not love others because they will perish one day? No,If my love is only for her it keeps growing the truth will dawn on her that there is no one or nothing other than she. All those whom we loved, all those who caused us sorrow by being separated from us, they too will seem to us the imperishable ...........

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I WON A LOVE

I've lost my friend but I've won a love,
if I get problems you're a helping hand,
so the story finished with a happy end -
I've lost my friend but I've won a love.

Do you remember the time
when you said you are my friend,
when our feeling together got high,
when we thought we could fly?

We both dreamed of the sky,
and we both were too shy,
we both felt this feeling of coming out,
but it seems it wasn't enough.

As we didn't try to take the next step
in our hearts there grew a gap
and as for filling it we saw no chance,
we decided to stay just good friends.

My heart wants me to be with you but I can't
'cause if I would try I could also lose you,
it's a step back but I can understand
that you will help me - you're my best friend.


I've lost my friend but I've won a love
and that hurts after this way we went.
I know it but my heart doesn't understand
that I've lost my friend but I've won a love.

I LOST HER

On December 26, 2004 I got a call from the brother of a man that I loved and that I will always. I asked him how he is doing and he said "not good." I asked him what happened and he said "Haritha is no more." I fell to my knees with sorrow.


The times that I spent with her were great and bad. She told me once that she was not going to live past 18 years old and that she was going to die alone. I always told her that's not true. You are going to live a long life and we will be as friends forever....hmmmm she's dead and today is her birthday


She is my best chum in my school days. She was a good soft spoken gal. She was talented and intelligent. She could see people for who they really were. She could tell if you were a dishonest person. She was kind and gentle and funny.

I remember one time she gave a homeless man a hamburger and 50 rupees. I also remember one time I got so angry about something and she just giggled and said in a soft voice "Hey, calm down calm down it's ok." I was so stubborn to see her efforts for me.you guys wouldnt have seen me as a good blogger now without her assistance.Though Im a chauvanist i have strong belief that she is my boss. I always demanded more from her than she could give. The last time I heard her voice was on a phone and all she said was "I miss you man." I miss her feel for me and I miss her laugh . I miss seeing her beside me. She knew how to dance and I love to see that.


I LOST HER , CAN YOU GET HER BACK FOR ME?

Is That You Made Me Cry?....So,here I Go

See the sadness in my eyes? I'll make you cry

Look upon the daggers that have broken my frail soul

To shine with in the darkness and allow my pain to take its toll.

I begged you for your mercy but all you gave me were bloody hands.

I pushed away the darkness in hopes my light would start to expand

The blood is suffocating me and I'm drowning in its lies

How could you let me fall like this into the blood red tied

I'm sorry if you think i hurt you, I'll carry that each day

But bring your hands back to me and help me feel today

I'm reaching out but your not pulling in

dose this mean your the one to win

Look into my death filled eyes and tell me what you see

Did you really think you and i were meant to be

I'll dump you when you reach back for me once again

You never really cared for me i see it was only pretend

so back away and leave me to die

as the blood stained tears fall from my eyes

I'll call to you in spirit and I'll haunt you every night

You'll kill your self in pity and I'll laugh at how I'm right

So watch me fall away again and I'll kiss you good-bye

If only you hadn't let me die

I'd still come back to you

But now its to0 late for you and I'll see what you'll do

I'll laugh in your pathetic pain and let you feel my pain

You think that you knew me well, or did you go insane

For now i'll leave you broken in two and crash apart your heart

If you had just been there for me this wouldn't be the start

of a painful gasp of air that you take into your lungs

My eyes light up with bliss and I'll taste you with my tongue

Good-bye to you. what a said and pitiful end

you should have just told me the truth instead of playing pretend

The World I Want To live In

I'm not sure if "deserving" happiness is the best way to think about it. I'd ask yourself, what is achieved by forgoing happiness in your life? Does it make the situation of people in your area better if you are not happy? If you are happy, does it make the situation of suffering people in your areaworse?

In a way, it's a very self-centered idea that martyring ourselves (even emotionally) will make everyone else's life better. People who worry about surviving the trip to the market are totally and completely unaffected by whether you allow yourself to be happy. To think that feeling miserable is a moral response to the suffering of others is to buy into a weird mix of low self-esteem and high self-importance: your misery does nothing to alleviate other's suffering.

If the real importance of the question is not about what you "deserve" to feel, but rather whether it's morally or ethically acceptable to take actions that will make yourself happy at the expense of potentially taking actions that will make you less happy but could increase the happiness of others--well, that's a tougher question. First, I'd want to know whether making yourself happy really comes at the expense of doing something to make someone else happy. (If you forgo a nice vacation because other people in the world are suffering, it isn't really that your vacation comes at the expense of others in the world who are suffering. See above paragraph: people everywhere are wrapped up in their own lives, and the personal experiences of one person very very rarely have any sort of effect on others perceptions of their own situation.) Second, if *you* have no right to happiness when others suffer, then what right do people have to happiness when you aren't happy? That line of thinking, taken to its logical conclusion, would imply that the best world is where no one deserves happiness. That's not a world I want to live in, and I doubt it's the sort of world that you really want either.